4 Proven Ways to Position Yourself as the Obvious Choice (Not the “Nice” Coach Who Gets Ignored)

March 26, 2025

Leadership

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Helped hundreds of women build their dream businesses, breaking the rules and becoming their most authentic self since 2016, from a tiny island called Nusa Lembongan, located next to Bali (Indonesia). I love freediving and spending time with my 2 rescue doggies, hubby and 6 years old boy.

I'm GWEN — Business mentor & mindset coach

If people see you as the nice coach but not the expert, they won’t buy. You can post consistently, have strong testimonials, and even get a lot of engagement, but if your audience doesn’t trust that you’re the one to solve their problem, they’ll keep scrolling. And someone else, someone they perceive as the expert will get the sale.

In this blog, I’m breaking down exactly how to position yourself as an expert so your audience sees you as the only choice. This isn’t about fake confidence or trying to be someone you’re not. It’s about owning what you already know and showing up like a leader. If you’re building an online business and want to attract high-quality clients consistently, this is your strategy.

Let’s walk through the 4 shifts you need to make right now to upgrade your personal brand authority and turn passive followers into paying clients.

1. Own Your Authority—Stop Playing Safe

If you’re still trying to please everyone or keep your content neutral so you don’t offend, you’re doing it wrong. Leaders don’t blend in. They have opinions. They take a stand. They say things that not everyone agrees with—and that’s the point.

Want to know how to position yourself as an expert? Start by saying what you actually believe. Whether it’s your process, your perspective on your industry, or the mistakes you see others making, your bold opinions will set you apart and attract people who trust your leadership. Personal brand authority comes from conviction, not perfection.

2. Talk Like the Expert, Not the Friend

You’re not here to be relatable—you’re here to get people results. The best online business strategy is to create content that speaks with certainty. If you sound unsure, people won’t trust your process.

Instead of saying, “Maybe you’re feeling stuck because of this…” say, “You’re stuck because of this exact reason, and here’s what to do about it.”

That’s what an expert sounds like. And that’s who gets hired.

Your audience isn’t looking for another friend to vent to. They’re looking for the person who can get them from point A to point B. The more direct and confident you are, the more they’ll trust you to guide them.

3. Create and Name Your Framework

Experts don’t just teach—they teach with a system. And that system has a name.

One of the fastest ways to upgrade your personal brand authority is to create a proprietary method for what you do. This immediately positions your offer as different—and better. Your audience starts to see your approach as something unique and proven, not just another version of what they’ve already tried.

For example, don’t just say “I help women lose weight.”
Say “My Fit & Free Method has helped 100+ women lose weight without tracking or burnout.”

That single shift in how you describe your offer can completely change how people perceive you—and what they’re willing to pay.

4. Show the Gap Between Free Content and Paid Offers

Content is free. Transformation isn’t. That’s a mindset shift you need to build into your marketing immediately.

If you’re giving away everything in your free content and there’s no clear difference between what people get for free and what they get when they pay, you’re training your audience not to buy. You’re accidentally positioning yourself as a content creator, not a coach or expert.

Your online business strategy should be clear:
Free content builds trust. Paid offers deliver the transformation—through your unique method, support, and implementation.

Make sure your audience knows that your program is the only place to access the full experience, not just the scattered tips they get from your Instagram.

Final Thoughts

People don’t buy based on who they like. They buy based on who they trust to solve their problem.
That trust doesn’t come from how long you’ve been in business or how perfect your branding looks.
It comes from how you position yourself.

When you upgrade your personal brand authority using these 4 shifts—owning your opinions, speaking with confidence, creating a named method, and showing the gap between free and paid—you’ll start attracting clients who are ready to pay and excited to work with you.

Stop being the coach who gets compliments but no sales. Start being the one people hire without hesitation.

And if you’re ready to turn your content into a client-converting machine?


👉 Take My Money Messaging Masterclass where I’ll walk you through 26 strategic questions to craft messaging that sells every time.


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Helped hundreds of women build their dream businesses, breaking the rules and becoming their most authentic self since 2016, from a tiny island called Nusa Lembongan, located next to Bali (Indonesia). I love freediving and spending time with my 2 rescue doggies, hubby and 6 years old boy.

I'm GWEN — Business mentor & mindset coach

I help ambitious women build six and multi-six-figure businesses that are bold, profitable, and fully aligned with who they are,  without following cookie-cutter strategies or burning out trying to do it all.

I’ve built three multi-six-figure businesses from scratch, and I’ve helped hundreds of women refine their offers, master their messaging, step into their power with positioning that actually gets them paid.

I don’t teach one way to grow your business online. I help you find YOUR way. The way that matches your energy, your vision, and your big goals. I know you are building an empire, not a cute little side business. 

As a mom of a 6 years old boy, living on a tiny 7km² island in Asia, running a business I love and working just four days a week, I know that you don’t have to choose between ambition and freedom. You get to have both.

Ready to stop doing business like everyone else and finally become the one people buy from because your content and offers are fire?! Let’s go!!

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